Newborn Checklists - What do I need?!

I posted recently about What the heck do I need in my Hospital Bag? and thought whilst I was asking you lovely people for help, I may as well ask this question too...

What does my newborn baby actually need? 

There are again a million and one posts, websites, etc. that list the 'essential you MUST buy for baby' lists, but I don't believe I actually need it all. Am I being naive? Or realistic?

Please take a look at my lists below and do please comment on anything you think is unnecessary, or that is blatantly missing.

Things we definitely need:

• A pram, pushchair, or buggy that lies flat, so is suitable for newborn babies.
• Car seat
• Cot (with mattress) and sheets and blankets or a bottom sheet and a baby sleeping bag
• Feeding equipment - I'm hoping to breastfeed, so do I need anything? Although should I have bottle feeding equipment just in case? e.g.  bottles / teats / bottle brush, formula and sterilising equipment.
• Nappies - I am planning to use disposable for first few weeks at least, then possibly reuseable.
• Changing mat
• Nursing bra, breast pads, and nipple cream.
• Baby toiletries - nappy wipes, cotton wool balls, cotton buds, a good nappy rash cream (Do baby’s need wash / shampoo etc.? General consensus is no.)
• Brush and comb
• Plenty of towels / flannels / muslin squares
• Shawl or snow suit
• Six sleep suits/ long sleeved suits
• Six vests/ short sleeved suits
• Two cardigans/ jackets
• Hat, socks, and bootees

Things that are nice to have:

• 2 or 4 pacifiers (if I choose to use these)
• A special 'feeding' pillow or a 'V' shaped cushion
• Baby bath - although baby can use the big bath (have support), share with me, or I could use a new washing-up bowl at the very beginning.
• Baby box or bag
• Baby carrier or sling
• Baby monitor
• Basket/ crib (plus mattress, sheets and blankets)
• Bath thermometer
• Bottle rack
• Bouncy chair
• Breast pump and Breast milk storage bags
• Change table / unit
• Changing bag with a change mat
• Digital ear thermometer
• Highchair
• Mattress protectors (one for my bed as well)
• Mobiles
• Nail scissors/clippers
• Nappy wrapper
• Night light
• Playmat for tummy time
• Playpen
• Portable cot
• Rocking chair for feeding and swaddling
• Scratch mittens (one or two pairs). Don't use these unnecessarily: most infants don't actually need them, and all babies benefit from having their hands free for exploring, and for self comforting by sucking their fingers. It's better to keep baby's fingernails trimmed, rather than their hands hidden away!
• Sunshades for car windows
• Rattles and other baby toys - although not really necessary at first, they are nice for me and baby to enjoy together.

As always all comments greatly appreciated, and needed before I pull my hair out!

What the heck do I need in my Hospital Bag?

I have decided to pack a bag properly for the hospital. I started to do this as I progressed in pregnancy, but as with most things in my life, I lose interest quickly, so it is currently full of lots of things but I'm not sure how useful.

A quick search on Google for hospital bag returns a staggering 46,400,000 results! Wow!

Most of the pregnancy sites have a (downloadable) checklist for what to take.

Aptamil

Asda Baby & Toddler Club

Baby Centre

Baby World 

BBC

Boots

Bounty

Cow And Gate

Emma's Diary

Everyday Maternity

Good To Know

HiPP Baby Club 

Huggies Club

Mumsnet

Netmums

NHS

Pampers Village

Sainsbury's Little Ones

Seraphine

SMA

The Baby Registry

Which?

Ok, at this point, I have three options:

1) Print of all the checklists and cross reference what I need, stressful & time consuming

2) Say sod it! and buy one pre-packed - expensive and probably missing something vital

3) Breathe and ask people (i.e. new mums) who know what I actually need.

The current list I have:

Before you go:

Do a supermarket shop before your due date so you have all the essentials.

If you can, make and freeze a few meals for when you come home.

As do not have a car, I could call a taxi. Alternatively, arrange for an ambulance to pick you up. 

Birthing Partner - A pillow, blanket, and change of clothes for your birthing partner in case s/he’s in for an overnight stay. Ask them to pack their own bag, one less thing for you to do.

 

Mum’s bag:

Labour: 

• Mobile Phone (with music & portable speakers) and charger 
• Address book (contained in mobile). Make sure you have hospital number (phone number and reference number) somewhere accessible!
• Watch with a second hand or digital timer to time contractions (if using mobile phone one or app, make sure you know how to use it. Practice beforehand). 
• Pen & paper (notes in mobile if forget or it has this capability, most do)
• Contact details for your partner/birthing partner 
• Birth plan and maternity notes, Picture ID, insurance card and any other hospital paperwork you might need. 
• Money in change / coins about £10 for parking, snacks, drinks {although check parking costs online, they’re bloody expensive!} 
• Books/magazines/games
• Nightie or pyjama’s (Choose an old nightie or long t-shirt for labour you'll feel comfy walking around the delivery room or ward in) 
• Cardigan or sweatshirt (you may feel chilly in strong labour) 
• Dressing gown - Hospitals can be very warm, so a lightweight one is better
• Slippers 
• Socks (you may feel chilly in strong labour) 
• Underwear - (7-10 pairs). Either disposable or old, cheap knickers. If your waters break, no matter where you are, you'll want a change of underwear to help make you feel more comfortable. 
• Hot water bottle, cool pack or Massage oil (unscented) for pain relief. 
• TENS pain relief machine, if you are planning to use one.
• Your own birth ball – although your hospital may provide them 
• Facial sponge, for dabbing and sucking on or water spray / fan. Keep a water spray in the fridge until you leave for hospital. It's great for gentle cool-downs during labour.  
• Drinks and sandwiches or snacks in a cool-bag with (for you and birth partner) to keep you well hydrated throughout labour. Pop a flexible ice pack in the cool-bag before you leave to keep the drinks cool. It can double as a cool-pack for your forehead whilst in labour. Take bendy straws too, they will make drinking easier if you are lying down. It is a good idea to take some food in case you feel hungry; you will need to keep your energy levels up. Bananas, cereal bars, and glucose tablets. 

   

After birth: 

• Birth announcement cards, pen (if you are staying in overnight) 
•  Your favourite treat - you deserve it! 
• A mini bottle of bubbly and some chocolates to celebrate 
• Antibacterial wipes or hand solution to help protect from bacteria 
•  Camera & memory card, extra batteries 
• Arnica tablets to help with bruising after the birth. Although there is no conclusive evidence that they work (NHS 2007), many women report that taking arnica helps reduce bruising and helps the healing process. 
• Nursing bra (at least two, as you can get sweaty in hospital and if your milk comes early, your bra may get wet). A well-fitting ordinary bra if not, just remember your breasts may be larger than usual. 
• Breast pads you’ll need these even if you don’t plan to breastfeed (to absorb leaks of colostrum and milk).
• Lansinoh lanolin cream for breastfeeding to aid sore or cracked nipples. 
• Maternity pads - for before the birth if your waters break, and for afterwards when you'll bleed quite heavily (24)
• Toiletries - pack a sponge bag with a:
  • Body cream
  • Cleanser, toner and moisturiser
  • Contact lenses and spare glasses (even if you wear contacts)
  • Deodorant
  • Ear plugs, in case you end up on a noisy ward!
  • Eye mask, If you have trouble sleeping with the lights on
  • Face wipes
  • Flannel
  • Hairbrush, a hair band or scrunchie to tie back your hair or keep it off your face
  • Lip balm (gas and air can make your lips very dry)
  • Make-up and remover
  • Medications (check suitable if breastfeeding)
  • Mirror
  • Shampoo
  • Shower gel
  • Soap
  • Tissues
  • Toothbrush
  • Toothpaste
   
• Towels (preferably dark coloured so won’t get mixed up with hospital laundry). 
• Flip flops for the shower. The best hot shower you will ever take is after giving birth 
• Going home clothes - Bring something loose and easy to get into - preferably a selection from your maternity wardrobe - along with a pair of flat shoes. 
• Laundry bag for dirty clothes 
• Front opening nightdress or pyjamas for after the birth for easy breastfeeding (if you've made the breastfeeding decision) 
• Pillows - It is comforting. Just make sure you have a colourful cover on it to distinguish it from the hospitals. Also a v-shaped pillow (can help make baby feeding more comfortable)

Baby’s bag: 

• Sleepsuits / babygrows x 2 /3 - 6 
• Vests x 2/3 – 6 
• Scratch mittens 
• Hat 
• Socks – that can fit over babygro’s
• Going home outfit
  
• Outdoor clothes suitable for the time of year (cardigan, jacket, snowsuit) 
• Baby bottles - if you are bottle-feeding. Some maternity units may have sterilising equipment, so check with them and bring your own formula milk and sterilising equipment if needed
• Muslin squares 
• A pack of newborn nappies, nappy bags and nappy rash cream (if you're using terry towelling, include your own nappy pins) 
• Top and tail bowl (in case the hospital does not provide one - check with your midwife in advance)
• Cotton wool balls / unperfumed baby wipes / baby sponge - for bathing. 
• Hooded baby towels 
• Baby nail clippers 
• Colic drops may be useful as many newborns suffer
• Blankets 
• Pushchair or car seat - babies travelling home by car must be strapped into properly fitted car seats
• Soft toy suitable for newborns

How much of this is necessary? Anything I have forgotten? Or any extra nice to haves?  

Please leave me a comment if there is.

I am at hospital numerous times shortly, so I will check with them.

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